Sex Toy Parties

After many calls and emails requesting we add this to our line up we are pleased to announce our 2009 Sex Toy Party packages to the public.  When you throw an adult themed party, it’s more than just talking about what you like in the bedroom, it’s about having fun. At EN4U, we believe that life doesn’t exist in a party unless a lot of fun is involved. This is why we offer so many different types of products when you purchase one of our party packages. Having fun and being educated is what an adult themed party is all about.

Hosting Advice

You’re hosting the party to make money, but you’re also doing it to have fun. Spice up any slumber party, sports party, sex toy party, or just a party to educate your friends on what they could be missing out on! Make sure you tell your guests what advantages they have from purchasing from you, and of course you’ll want to show them how the toys work.

“Make sure you invite people you are close with. It may be a bit “weird” trying to explain how a certain toy or game is done to someone you’re not comfortable with.

“Make sure you make everyone comfortable and lighten the mood with appetizers and drinks before you get right in to explaining what each item you’re about to pass around is all about.

“We advise making a CD that has fun, popular dancing songs on them. This helps get everyone in the partying mood!

“Make it more fun and exciting for your guests and do some kind of raffle to offer them a free gift, whether it’s a toy, candy, or whatever you want!

“If you need help with training or advice on how to host an adult themed party, just e mail us.

Party Guest Advantages

The people at your party can come to our website and order the products for 10% off as long as they use your name during the checkout process. They must use the name we have on file for you in order to get the 10% off.

Additional Hostess Benefits

“On the night of the party, if there are sales made on our site from your guests, you will earn 10% commission for the sale(s), before the tax and shipping cost. You will need to tell us what night your party will be on so that we can give you a code to give to your guests so that when they order from our site, we know that the sale came from your party.

“All hosts that purchase any party packager from us will get a FREE Original Jack Rabbit Vibrator, which is the first Jack Rabbit Vibrator that made a real hit on the industry, and you’ll find out why!

“You get products for 10% off all the time when you purchase from our store. We will provide you with a code that will ensure your 10% off of all orders placed by you.

“You can order products from us and sell them for whatever you want.

“You will get an e mail notice of what new products are going up that may interest you.

It’s your choice whether you want to buy from us for your customers, or if you want to send your customers to our site. You can sell the products you buy from us at whatever cost you want. As long as you continue to purchase from us, you’ll save money whether you keep the items for yourself, or you can make more money by selling the items at a higher price than we would. The choice is yours!

To begin the “Ultimate Girls Night In” check out our Sex Toy Party packages today!

PS – We found this cute video we thought you may enjoy…..

Life is stressful as it is and adding relationships to the mix can play a very negative role on your anxiety levels, especially if you already have a habit of developing panic-stricken attacks when it comes to love and dating.

Over the last 10 years there has been progress in various therapies to help relieve the burden of anxiety. It is best that you try to avoid taking drugs to cope your dating anxiety.

Below are some dating anxiety prevention tips:

1. Instead of hiding your nervousness, admit it to yourself and your date.
Often times what leads to a major anxiety attack spawns from trying to keep your initial nervousness covered up. If your ‘special someone’ comes into the room to see you then do not pretend your anxiety isn’t there. Simply say “I am sorry if I appear nervous, but I am very nervous right now”. Your date will appreciate the honestly and by telling him/her you’ll feel a lot better.

2. If you had an anxious episode during a date then afterwards do not beat yourself up worrying how you acted.
It’s best just to give yourself affirmations in a positive manner that helps you build confidence and do better the next time around by taking control.

3. In order to calm down each time you have an anxiety attack, simply walk away and breathe.
If you happen to be with your new girlfriend or boyfriend then by following my previous tip on being honest with them about your nervousness, and also let them know that you need a minute alone, walk outside, and breathe slowly until you regain composure. Before you know it, this simple technique will calm you down every time.

Have you ever fantasized about being a stripper? Have you ever thought it would be cool to do a striptease for your lover? Well, guess what? You’re not alone!

Truth be told, many women have this same fantasy. Many more have even “busted a move” for their lover. Sound like fun? It sure is! Plus, the Romantic Striptease is an awesome way to show your lover just how sexy you’re feeling. And take it from me, he will agree with you 100%.

Of course anytime you remove your own clothes in front of your lover there’s sure to be “fireworks”. But lets do something special. Let’s treat your lover, let’s plan an actual Romantic Striptease.

So, what’s needed to make the Romantic Striptease a success? Let’s have a look.

First and foremost, you do not have to be a professional dancer to do this. This is for fun between you and your sweetie. Enjoy the time together.

Next, is music selection. Keep in mind you and your partner’s taste. The music you choose needs to be a bit on the slow side. Not too slow and draggy, but slow enough so you will be able to take your time removing your clothes one piece at a time and really Tease.

Speaking of clothing, you’ll have to plan what to wear. And, you won’t need to go shopping either. Well…not unless you want to. It is best to start off fully dressed. After all it is called a “Strip TEASE”. Removing layers is much more fun, and exciting. A sexy dress, or blouse and skirt, choose an outfit that always turns your partner on. You know, the one where he just can’t keep his hands off you. Then for underneath that, choose a couple more things. A pretty camisole, over a sexy bra. On the bottom put a pair of sexy skimpy panties over a pair of thongs. Eventually you’ll be removing it all, one piece at a time. Remember, anything that drive’s your sweetie wild, and whatever makes you feel sexy and desirable is in order here. You can pretty much choose whatever’s in your closet for the outer layer. A good, “naughty” choice is always the schoolgirl look, or you could go for the button-down business look. A tie would later make a great prop. Just think about looping it behind his head to pull him into your breasts.

Then accessorize. This includes anything like glasses, hats, ties, as well as the all-important thigh highs, (or garter belt and stockings) and stiletto heels. Just make sure you can actually move around and dance in those stilettos. If you don’t have any in your closet, borrow a pair from a friend. Also long necklaces look amazing when you’re down to the bare essentials, plus long gloves and feather boas are great accessories too.

Place a chair somewhere in your bedroom where you will have easy access to move all around it. Of course it’s for your sweetie to sit on and watch as you dazzle him with your StripTease. Also, chill some of your lover’s favorite beverage. Wine or champagne would be great. You could have some fresh fruit like strawberries or grapes to feed your lover as you dance up a storm. Just remember to take it slow and easy.

When the time comes to do your Romantic StripTease remove one piece of clothing at a time, making sure to linger on each piece. Give it a try, I promise you and your lover will have great fun. Oh yeah and great sex as well!

The most common complaint from men regarding sex is frequency, and the most common complaint from woman is lack of emotional intimacy.

There is a very good reason why these are the most common complaints – men and women are very different when it comes to sex!

The biological sexual drive, or lack of it, relates to how much testosterone is present. Men biologically have much more testosterone than women. Men’s biology equips them to be ready for sex most of the time, which is nature’s way of ensuring the survival of the species. Women, on the other hand, often do not experience a biological sexual drive unless they are in the middle of their menstrual cycle. This fact can create a big problem in relationships.

I’ve often heard men complain that:

“It’s not fair. My wife is in control of our sex life. If she wants it, then we have it. If she doesn’t, then I have no say about it. Why does it always have to be her way?”

“My wife complains that she needs to feel intimate before we make love, but I get to intimacy through making love.”

“I don’t reach out for sex much anymore because I’m tired of being rejected, but my wife says she wants to be pursued in a romantic way. This feels like a no-win to me.”

“I think if my wife really cared about me and my needs, she would have sex with me even when she wasn’t turned on.”

I’ve often heard women complain that:

“He always seems to be ready for sex, but I don’t feel turned on unless we are feeling close. I can’t just watch TV all evening and then feel like making love.”

“I often feel pulled on for sex, as if having sex is more important than caring about me. When I do what he wants, I feel used, and when I don’t, I run into his anger, resentment, blame or withdrawal. It feels like a no-win.”

“My husband often comes to me like a needy little boy, wanting me to pacify him or validate him with sex. Ugh! There is nothing erotic about an insecure, needy little boy!”

“There must be something wrong with me. I just don’t ever feel turned on anymore.”

The very real issue here, at least for most men under 40, is that they are biologically motivated and women are mostly emotionally motivated. Heterosexual women get turned on when their man is warm, open, caring, and personally powerful. Most women are not turned on by a man who is closed, distant, angry, blaming, or needy.

The problems of frequency can get resolved as men and women learn to understand and accept each other’s differences. Men need to understand and accept that women are not as biologically motivated as men are. Many women rarely even think about sex, while most men will tell you that they think about sex frequently throughout the day. When men understand that women are turned on by love, romance, emotional intimacy, warmth, caring, and personal power, then men may be motivated to learn to be the loving, powerful and romantic partners that women want and need.

When women can accept that men’s biology is very present for them, they can stop putting men down for it and start supporting their men in creating more emotional intimacy, romance, and personal power. When women criticize men instead of understanding and accepting them, they help to create some of the insecurity that is such a turn off to many women. When a woman can appreciate rather than demean her man for his sexuality, she can find ways of meeting his needs without feeling used.

Understanding and accepting each other’s differences and needs can lead both men and women toward more satisfying sex lives.