Many couples use dirty talk to spice up sex. Talking dirty is an acquired art, like dancing or writing poetry. It seems intimidating, but anyone can learn how to do it. 

Here are some great tips to steer you in the right path.

Watch what you say (in other words, try to stay on the safe side until you know your partner can handle it). Tone the level of profanity until you know your partner is comfortable with it. There’s a fine line between seductive and sleazy. Try to use good judgments when revealing your intimate thought.

Start by using descriptive and positive talk. Compliment a particular part of your lover’s body that you find irresistible. “You have an awesome butt. It’s so nice and round. Just the way I like it.”, “You’re legs are super sexy. Come here and let me touch you.”, “I love the taste of your (name part or fluid)!.”

Be sincere. The trick is to pull off dirty talk without sounding cheesy. Look your partner in the eyes. Hold their hand. Say it like you mean it. You should only go as far as you feel comfortable. It shouldn’t seem rehearsed. When your partner does something that makes you feel phenomenal tell them. “Oh baby, that feels soooo Good!”, “You’re getting me so horny (hard).”, “That move drives me craazzy!”, “I want you so bad!”

Use dirty talk to coach or cheer your partner on. If you want your partner to buck or thrust harder, demand it! “Harder! Harder! Do me harder!”, “Faster, faster! Quick baby, I need it!” Additionally, if you’re enjoying the way your partner is touching a particular area, cheer them on by say, “Oh yeah, do it right there! Honey, that’s your spot!” or “Nobody can do that like you!”

Practice, practice, practice. Although you don’t want dirty pillow talk to sound rehearse or routine. Instead, practice being comfortable talking about your fantasy with your partner. Tell your partner what you want him/her to do to you. And encourage them you reveal their fantasies.

It doesn’t take a genius to figure out that men love to play golf. Personally, I’ve never really understood the entire draw towards the game. Though I do enjoy miniature golf I cannot fathom walking for three hours chasing a ball. So I thought to myself, instead of three hours of golf, what about three hours of sex? Now that is a great idea!!!Well what you need for this game is a small putting green (your carpet) a cup for the hole (you can pick up at any big box department store or any golf store), his putter, and a couple of golf balls. Now what you must do is decide on nine things that he or even you may want to do for sexual favors. Some things can include:

Select nine things and place them in an envelope and label them Hole 1 to Hole 9. Hidden within these nine envelopes will be nine different desires to make his or your dreams come true.Now you must create nine different holes within the house. You have control over where you want to put the ball or what obstacles you want to put in the way. Yes it is miniature golf, but in your house.

What is left to do is set up the golf green and place two putting lines. You can use some masking tape and set up 9 lines at each of the different holes. Also place one line one foot in front of the other line so you get the advantage of putting from closer. Of course we want to give you the upper advantage.

As he walks in that evening the two of you will be putting for sex. Explain to him the game and once you start, feel free to distract him in any way possible. You can take off a piece of his or your clothing, blindfold him with your bra, or even giving him oral sex. By the time he gets to the final hole the two of you will be naked which is perfect for him. Want to change the game a little bit? Try selecting 9 different positions instead of foreplay scenes. Now set up the 9 holes. If he gets a hole in one, he gets the envelope, if he doesn’t, he gets nothing. But be easy on him and make it simple, you want to have fun too. Be sure to show him what the position is before he putts so he will be eager to get the hole in one.

There can be no denying that when it comes to sex, nothing beats the real thing. However, one cannot also ignore the popularity of several sex toys and the continued introduction of newer models to satisfy a demanding market. This market is growing and as such we should pay attention to how people integrate these items into their sex lives. You should be aware that sex toys can also be used to enhance your sex lives and bring you and your partner to a new level of closeness and intimacy.

Loosely defined, sex toys are devices meant to pleasure the user sexually, usually used on erogenous parts of the body.

Probably the most common and most popular sex toy is the vibrator. Majority of its users are women, and most admitted to curiosity as the primary reason for initial usage. Though some prefer to use vibrators in private, it can also be used with a partner. For heterosexuals, vibrators can be handy when the guy comes off too fast. It can also be a part of your foreplay, to arouse you and your partner to greater heights. In instances when the vibrator is shared, as in lesbian couples, slip a condom over it before inserting into the vagina and put a new one before handing it to your partner. Make sure that it is also properly cleaned before storing.

Dildos are also quite popular among the ladies, as they mimic the shape, texture, and size of a real penis, though they require considerably more effort than battery operated or rechargeable vibrators. Again, it would do some good if you slip on a condom over it before using, especially among lesbians who use it to pleasure their partners. And even if you are using it alone to masturbate, a condom would still be advisable unless you are pretty sure your storage place is totally devoid of germs and other irritants.

There is also one recently introduced product that is fast gaining a loyal following, the vibrating ring. It is a device that is slipped on the penis, and over a condom, and is used to enhance the pleasure of both partners. The vibrating ring has a small battery within the rubber casing. Women who have tried it claim of achieving multiple orgasms through the use of vibrating ring. And the best part of this is that men can take part of the action, too. A vibrating ring is known to extend the erection of the penis. It also has bumps and raised surfaces for heightened pleasure. And because it is stretchable, a vibrating ring can accommodate any size of penis. Vibrating ring users also revel in the fact that this device is portable, easily concealed and thus can be carried almost anywhere.

Though the use of sex toys to achieve self-gratification is an effective method of birth control, don’t think it will turn you away from the pleasure of real, consensual sex. With the availability of contraceptives and protective devices such as condoms and pill, sex is and will always remain to be life’s most enjoyable activity. However, there is still no denying that dildos, vibrators, and the vibrating ring afford much pleasure to their users and will continue to enjoy great popularity.

Many people who are sexually frustrated often times consider ending their relationships. If you really love your husband or wife, you should not leave solely based on your sexual frustrations. Try to spice things up in the bedroom by doing a little experimenting. This has proven to be successful for many couples.

As wonderful as it is to hear that experimenting in the bedroom can help improve your sex life, there are always a few things you have to take into consideration before you start experimenting in the bedroom. Let’s look at a few of the pros and cons.

One of the pros to experimenting in bed is that you break the boredom. Change is a good thing. Change is important for the survival of many relationships. If you sex as a chore then you need to make some changes immediately.

Another pro to experimenting in bed is the improvement your sex life will experience. As I said before, change will do most relationships a lot of good. Experimenting in the bedroom can bring back the fire so to speak. It would be just like the first time you and your husband or wife made love. Hopefully that was a great experience.

The big pool of options you have when you experimenting in bed are another reason why experimenting in bed is a good idea. Unfortunately, when many men and women think of experimenting they go to the extreme and think it has to involve something like bringing another person into the bedroom. That is in no way what I mean when I say experiment in the bedroom.

I personally feel that bringing another person into your bedroom is very disrespectful. But if it works for you then hey, go for it. When I say experiment I mean trying new positions, role playing and things of that nature.

Now that I have listed a few of the good things about experimenting in the bedroom allow me to open your eyes to a few of the not so good things. One downside is that simply fact that you have to talk to your partner about this. Depending on how open and mature your relationship is this could be a very hard thing to do.

Your partner may automatically thing that they are unable to please you. Your partner might also feel very offended. So be very gentle in your approach.

Another downside is that your partner may resist your desire for change. They may not want to change anything. They may think your sex life is just fine. It is very important to get your point across please do not come across as being pushy. Your partner may just need a little time to adjust so give it to them. Sooner or later they just might come around.

Remember there is a lot of good that can come from experimenting but there is also a lot bad that could come from it as well. Talk to you your partner. Remember that the both of you need to keep an open mind. That’s the only way it can work.

by BillionDollarGirl, Jul 28, 2008

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Many couples lack intimacy, and even if they don’t, if you’re together for a while, things can get a bit stale and boring.  Complaints of “We’ve done that so many times….let’s try something different” are what we hear about all the time.  Lots of people just want to experiment and try new things, and what better way to do that with our selection of dildos, cock rings, vibrators and sexual DVD’s and lubricant enhancers?  Using any of these sexual items as a couple can do wonders for a relationship.  Things won’t be boring anymore and you’ll add some spice to your physical relationship!

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Shapes And Sizes

Realistic Dildos, larger than life penises, and more abstract cylinders that don’t resemble penises. These may be inserted into the vagina, or pressed into the vulva and clitoris. They may also be used for whole-body massage. And if you like, they can be pressed against the anus, or even inserted inside it.

G-spot stimulators. These enable a woman to reach her own G-spot, something very difficult to do with her own fingers. The G-spot is located an inch or two inside the vagina on the front vaginal wall if the woman is standing, or the top if she is lying on her back. The G-spot is an area composed of erectile tissue similar to the tissue inside the penis. During sexual stimulation, G-spot tissue swells and often feels like a firm, domed protrusion from the vaginal wall. When the G-spot, actually an area typically about the size of a quarter, is rubbed or pressed, many women find it highly erotic.

Ball-topped vibrators. These are hand-held wands topped by a vibrating ball, typically the size of a plum. They are excellent for whole body massage, but may also be used on the genitals. The most popular is the Hitachi Magic Wand.

Eggs & Bullets. This is a general term for mini-vibrators. Bullets are typically too small to house the motor and battery inside them, so these elements are contained in a separate control unit wired to the bullet. Small and compact, bullets are a good choice for travel. They may also be slipped inside underwear to provide a little secret “buzz” in social situations without anyone knowing. Remote-control bullets–great fun at parties–allow your lover to give you a buzz.

Double-Shaft Vibes. In addition to the typical penis- or cylinder-shaped toy, these vibrators have a small extra protrusion extending from the middle of the shaft for clitoral stimulation while the main shaft is inside the vagina. Tongues. The base looks like any phallic vibrator, but the top flattens out to become tongue shaped. Turn it on, and the tongue wags back and forth for a reasonable approximation of cunnilingus. (Be sure to use plenty of lubricant.) Butterflies or vulvar vibrators. Instead of cylindrical, these have a more flattened shape. They are not meant for vaginal insertion, but rather, for pressing into the vulva. Some models come with straps that wrap around the thighs to hold them in place. Unique vibes. These come in unusual shapes and sizes, but still vibrate and can be easily pressed against the clitoris or vulva.

Materials

Vibrators may be made of hard or soft plastic, jelly, or Cyberskin, a plastic material that feels remarkably similar to human skin. Xandria vibrators are not made from latex rubber, so if you’re allergic to latex, you should have no problem with our products.

Power Sources

There are three possibilities: traditional batteries, rechargeable batteries, or plug-in wall current. The basic distinction is batteries vs. plug-in. Each has advantages and disadvantages. Battery-powered vibrators generally weigh less than plug-in vibes. They are also more portable and versatile. They can be used in many places were wall current is unavailable: in cars, boats, theaters, or outdoors. Use your imagination. But the batteries must be changed or recharged periodically, and may lose power when you want it most. Wall current vibrators generally have more powerful motors so they deliver more intense sensations. Vibes powered by rechargeable batteries are generally more powerful than traditional battery models.

Speed

Some vibrators have only one speed. Others are adjustable and multispeed. Smaller more portable vibrators tend to have just one speed. Larger, more elaborate models often are multispeed.

Waterproof

Most vibrators are NOT waterproof. Because of the danger of electric shock, they NOT be used in the tub or shower. However, some vibrators are waterproof. The electrical components are carefully sealed within the housing. Waterproof vibes can be used in the tub or shower.

Kits And Attatchments

Some vibrators come with multiple attachments that fit over the vibrating head. The various attachments alter the look of the vibrator and the sensations it provides.

Vibrators As Dildos

When turned off, any phallic or cylindrical vibrator can be used as a dildo for vaginal or anal insertion.

Solo Or Couple Play

Surveys show that while most vibrators are used by women solo, about 10 percent of American couples now use vibrators in partner sex. Lovers can take turns used vibrators on each other for whole-body massage. For genital play, many women insist on handling the vibrator themselves—the clitoris is VERY sensitive to touch, especially the intense sensations vibrators provide. The same goes for the penis, scrotum, and anus. But while the woman, or man, is pressing the vibe where it provides intense pleasure, they often enjoy the closeness of being held by their lovers.

The “BEST” Vibrator For Me

There is no “best” vibrator for everyone. It is really up to you. Different people have different preferences, which is why Eroticnights4u carries such a large selection. But factors to consider include: shape, size, insertability (and if so where?), your sexual fantasies, and for vibrators, the power supply and whether or not you want it waterproof. Start with a model you find aesthetically pleasing that meets your needs for size, shape, power supply, etc. From there, consider adding others to your collection. Surveys show that most women own one or two vibrators, but a surprisingly large proportion own several. Compared with other forms of entertainment, vibrators are quite economical. For less than the price of one restaurant dinner, you can purchase a vibrator that provides hour—weeks, years—of erotic pleasure and fulfillment. Author: Michael Castleman, M.A

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